Who Is This Guy? (I Don’t Bite, I Promise!)

The time between Christmas and New Year’s has always been a period of reflection for me. As we all chalk up one more trip around the sun, it is important to me to look back on the past 12 months, sift through the good and the bad and find those useful lessons I can take with me to make the upcoming year even better.

To say that 2009 has been a challenging year would be an understatement for many. In spite of the economy, financially, we have had a very good year and considered ourselves very blessed. That said, I have witnessed others who would probably not characterize their year the same; which leads me to the following joke…bear with me.

A doctor decided to take off early, head to the golf course and try to find a group in need of a ‘fourth’ and sneak in 18 holes before supper. He was lucky as he was quickly paired with a lawyer, engineer and insurance salesman.

After some small talk and a few holes, the doctor asked the attorney if, because of his line of work, he too gets asked a lot of questions seeking advice for free, explaining that he is often queried by friends and acquaintances about small ailments, here and there.

The attorney assured the doctor that this happens to him all the time and he finally found a way to respond. “I simply answer their question and when I get back to the office, I send them a bill. That usually stops those seeking free advice.”

The doctor, thought, “Wow…that is so clever, I will have to remember that.”

The group finished their game, exchanged business cards and after having an enjoyable round all agreed they would have to play together again…

…that was until the doctor got to his office on Monday and found a bill from the attorney.

The idea for this offering came from someone who emailed me and wanted to chat. I replied that I am always open to ‘talking shop’, tossing around ideas, learning more about their business and encouraged the person to give me a buzz when they had the time.

More than a week passed and I finally received a voice mail from the person to which I called back at my first opportunity. In our discussion, the person began with, “I finally got the nerve to call…” It was during our chat that I realized that maybe this person has heard the above joke before and was afraid they would soon be on the receiving end of an invoice from me.


So who is this guy behind the curtain of this blog? I am just one who has been very blessed in my career and has been able to take my years of experience, combine it with a ‘healthy dose of OCD’ and found a way to do what I believe is my calling. I truly love what I do and I am truly passionate about entrepreneurs, business, the free-enterprise system and capitalism. I thrive on seeing someone take the necessary risks to start their own business and flourish. I am a big believer that this is still the ‘American Dream’.

I have always said that one’s goal in sales should be to have an unlisted phone number. That’s right, an unlisted number. You build up your client base so large, that you cannot possibly take on any new customers and you just sit back, answer the phone and take orders.

Until then, I will continue to put my contact information at the end of each blog posting for a reason. I sincerely enjoy hearing from readers and unlike the lawyer above, you will not receive an invoice from me for just talking shop. I am happy to say that I will be calling a reader today and we will discuss a few ways they may be able to ‘shave a few strokes’ off their game.

So as long as you continue to see my email address at the end of this blog, drop me a line if you like. I promise you won’t receive an invoice and who knows, we may just find at the end of the exchange, a way we can both build new business…if not today, maybe next year.

If you are one of those who will file away 2009 as a challenging year, it is my sincere wish that the upcoming year will be better in all aspects.

Happy New Year everyone…thanks!


Bobby Darnell is the founder and Principal of Construction Market Consultants, Inc. An Atlanta based management consulting group specializing in business development, sales, marketing and profitability as well as executive placement for the Architectural, Engineering and Construction industry.

Bobby can be reached at bobbydarnell [at] cmconl.com


About the Author

Bobby Darnell is the founder and Principal of Construction Market Consultants, Inc., An Atlanta based management consulting group specializing in CRM, Business Development, Sales, Marketing as well as Executive Placement and Recruiting for the Architectural, Engineering and Construction industry.

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